Mila Alupay

Mila Tomas Alupay

Sunday, October 17th, 1943 - Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
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Mila Tomas Alupay,
Our loving mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, had passed away on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021. She was born in San Nicolas, Ilocos Norte, Phillippines on October 17, 1943 .

Mila was born to Victor Tomas Sr(deceased) and Prudencia Campos Tomas. Mila migrated to Hawaii in 1962 as a visitor but later received a student visa. She attended Maui Community College and graduated with an Associate in Science in Accounting. She has worked in different places that includes Maui Farmers Co-op - 1972, Ooka Supermarket - 1976, Bank of Hawaii - 1978, Woolworth - 1984, back to Bank of Hawaii - 1989, back to Ooka's in 1990's, and Walmart - 2001 until her passing. In 1972 she married Ely Alupay in the Philippines and later he joined Mila here on Maui. They welcomed their first child Emily in 1973 and their second child Randy in 1976. Mila enjoyed cooking for her family and watching Filipino shows on TV, and most especially, enjoyed talking via video chat with her grandchildren. Although she is no longer here, she will continue to live in the hearts of her children Emily Alupay and Randy (Michelle) Alupay, her grandchildren Breana Elise and Riley Malia, her mother Prudencia Campos Tomas, her siblings Ernesto Tomas and Carmen (Clement) Orquia, and her many nieces and nephews.

She is together now with her husband Ely Alupay and her father Victor Tomas Sr., and her brother Victor Tomas Jr.

Visitation will be held at Norman’s Mortuary on Friday, April 30, 2021 at 6:30 p.m. with continued visitation on Saturday, May 1, 2021 at 9:30 a.m. A private burial will be held at Maui Memorial Park Cemetery in Wailuku.

Due to the on-going pandemic of COVID-19, we kindly ask for those in attendance to wear your masks and practice social distancing at all times. Seating will be limited to family RSVP. All other visitors will walk through visitation and exit back of the funeral home.

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  • Visitation

    Friday, April 30th, 2021 | 6:30pm
    Friday, April 30th, 2021 6:30pm
    Norman's Mortuary
    105 Waiale Road
    Wailuiku, HI 96793
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  • Second Visitation

    Saturday, May 1st, 2021 | 9:30am
    Saturday, May 1st, 2021 9:30am
    Norman's Mortuary
    105 Waiale Road
    Wailuiku, HI 96793
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email


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Dear Randy, Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. From Phil Campos and Family.
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